A friend is one to whom you can pour out the contents of your heart, chaff and grain alike. Knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping and with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away

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O/S Grid Reference:  TQ410487    (click on the Grid Ref. for a map)

Postcode: RH8 0RR

By road:  From the traffic lights on the A25 at Limpsfield, west of Westerham, turn south onto Wolf's Road.  Continue south under the traffic light controlled railway bridge.  Just after a road joins from the rear to your right, the road you are on bears right.  Go straight ahead instead of taking the right curve and turn immediately left into Staffhurst Wood Road, by a disused church (St. Silvan's).  St Silvan's Car Park is on the left.

From Edenbridge, take the road north (B2026).  Once outside the 30mph limit, take the first road on the left (Hole Lane).  Continue ahead as Monks Lane and, at the far end, turn right into Grants Lane.  Then take the first left into Staffhurst Wood Road.  The car park is at the far end, on the right.

From Haxted Mill, turn north into Dwelly Lane about 100 yards east of the mill.  Keep going ahead, across the railway, and Staffhurst Wood Road is on the right just before the road joins Caterfield Lane.